Lag and acks? Acks are on my FE? Hmmm well then, Lag is no problem for me...moosecookies. If I see an nme a/c come swooping down at me, and I'm in a manneable ack; I draw a bead on him and fire when he is still D3.0 away, and he passes by at D-450 without so much as a nick on his a/c, then I see him warp away I'd say that aint my problem.
Other circumstances defy what I'm supposed to be seeing on my FE; I check Net Status and I see Host queue readings like a broken toothed comb; then that aint a problem with my FE either.
When I get 12 kills in a manneable ack against nme jabos, and I check my Netstatus, and the Host queue readings are steady, I'm thanking the Internet/Server gods.
I spent a lot of time on another sim a couple years ago, and there were a buttload of connection problems. Everytime I asked or complained about em, I would get the same answer: "it's a problem on your end" . Turns out, that was all BS

There are enough posts in here about problems that too many are having to have it be a problem on 'everyone's' end/FE.