Author Topic: Urgent advice needed - very serious post. (Read 1963 times)

Eagler · « **Reply #15 on:** August 14, 2002, 10:12:42 AM »

ya know Mike/wulfie

if you'd backhanded the rugrat yourself, you wouldn't have this dilemma LOL

hblair · « **Reply #16 on:** August 14, 2002, 10:28:44 AM »

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Originally posted by midnight Target
I've raised 4.

There have been many times I wanted to beat them to a bloody pulp, but they have been spared by divine intervention and cooler heads.

So it would be accurate to say Tahgut is "soft on crime"?

AKSWulfe · « **Reply #17 on:** August 14, 2002, 10:46:41 AM »

midnight Target · « **Reply #18 on:** August 14, 2002, 11:33:08 AM »

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Originally posted by hblair

So it would be accurate to say Tahgut is "soft on crime"?

hehe

You got little girls HB? They learn by about age 2 how to get away with murder when it comes to daddy. Yeah I'm a softy alright.

wulfie · « **Reply #19 on:** August 14, 2002, 11:41:47 AM »

I am certain the injury was the result of a freak accident.

I've got a fair amount of experience with injuries and I can gurantee the Mom had nothing to do with the broken bone.

Mike/wulfie

hblair · « **Reply #20 on:** August 14, 2002, 12:30:19 PM »

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Originally posted by midnight Target

hehe

You got little girls HB? They learn by about age 2 how to get away with murder when it comes to daddy. Yeah I'm a softy alright.

My oldest is a girl. She's ten and as far as I know hasn't ever done anything wrong.

My other two are boys 7 and 6. They do evil things all the time.

DRILL · « **Reply #21 on:** August 14, 2002, 12:59:04 PM »

I look at it this way >> a mother has a seriouse injured

kid ...go's for help >>YOU ) ... shes all upset and

worried bought her youngest ...You are trying to help!!

2nd kidd kicks you in the face !!! mother grabs the kid ,and punishes him. i beleave it was more of a reaction due
to the circumstances at the time ... but the chiled may not understand at that moment why she did that ...you can only hope
as a parent she explaned it to him ..... peaple react differently when under duress ...after all we are human ...if we were all
perfect ..we would not have to punish anyone would we ??

Seems to me the human race has many ..many ways
to keep peaple in line look at the laws we have
created they have more then trippled in the last
25 yrs ...soon you won't be able to scratch your nose
in public hehehe

Thrawn · « **Reply #22 on:** August 14, 2002, 02:18:01 PM »

Was it child abuse?
Did she abuse the child? Yes.

Punitive parenting is the last resort of the parent that has lost control of their anger, or has run out of ideas on how to deal with the situation.

Target, how do you get the attention of someone at work? Do you spank them?

If anyone is interested in not beating their children, you might want to research non-coersive parenting. Nothing MAKES you hit your child. It's a decision you make.

midnight Target · « **Reply #23 on:** August 14, 2002, 02:25:01 PM »

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Originally posted by Thrawn
Was it child abuse?
Did she abuse the child? Yes.

Target, how do you get the attention of someone at work? Do you spank them?

Yes.

Is that wrong?

With all these immigrant Mexicans easymo keeps sending me, it seems the best way to keep them in line.

Arfann · « **Reply #24 on:** August 14, 2002, 03:05:47 PM »

Ah, the old spank/no spank controversy. Easy solution. Spanking equals hitting. Hitting children is wrong. Spanking is wrong. . . . . . unless you just want to teach your child that physical violence is the best solution to problems.

Animal · « **Reply #25 on:** August 14, 2002, 03:12:27 PM »

Man, If I hit a stranger in the face, the tortures my mom would make me go thru...

Let them be. Its discipline, and well deserved.

Its abuse when they hit em hard for no reason. What she did has been the natural instinct of mothers for millions of years.

midnight Target · « **Reply #26 on:** August 14, 2002, 03:14:46 PM »

roadkill.... sry.

When a 3 yr. old wants to run into the street, a swat on the behind may just save their life. Thats what I meant by a wake up call.

Ritual beatings (go fetch me a switch boy) are much different. I have never and will never do that.

Dnil · « **Reply #27 on:** August 14, 2002, 03:15:19 PM »

thrawn, afrann, how many children you guys have?

oh if I may ask, what are your current occupations?

Thrawn · « **Reply #28 on:** August 14, 2002, 03:31:29 PM »

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Originally posted by midnight Target
roadkill.... sry.

When a 3 yr. old wants to run into the street, a swat on the behind may just save their life. Thats what I meant by a wake up call.

Ritual beatings (go fetch me a switch boy) are much different. I have never and will never do that.

Now that's roadkill. Hell breaking her legs would be a better way of saving her from running across the street. Rationalise hitting your kid all you want but don't expect me to agree with it.

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thrawn, afrann, how many children you guys have?

oh if I may ask, what are your current occupations?

One daughter.

I work in tech support.

My wife has been child caretaker for six years. She has helped raised children from 2 weeks to 12 years. If you want, I get her to explain some alternative parenting technics as she is much more familiar with them then I.

Elfenwolf · « **Reply #29 on:** August 14, 2002, 04:16:01 PM »

MT I need discipline- spank me. Please.