I've thought about this also.
You and I exchange polite greetings online (even though you are flying for the wrong chess piece
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) and I hope I can offer a reasonable perspective to an emotional issue.
(I say reasonable because the coordinates below my name are for Tokyo. I am not Japanese. I am a caucasian who has lived in Japan for the past 11 years, the U.S. for 29 years and Canada for 9 years. Gawd.... I'm old.)
I don't use the word "Jap." As a matter of fact, this is the first time that I have ever typed it and I feel uncomfortable typing it. I just added quotation marks around it because it makes it easier to look at - as if someone else typed it.
I understand why you posted this and how you feel. I think many repsonses will be that people honestly didn't think that it was offensive. Our beliefs come from what we read, what we see, what we hear and who we know.
Many people think that "Jap" is just a shortened version of Japanese.
Just like "Brit" for British, "Aussie" for Australian, "Swede" for Swedish, "Pole" for Polish and of course... "Tex" for someone from the country of Texas.
There are so many other examples and as much as we would
like to believe that people learn about other cultures - the truth is that they don't.
Now... remember how I said that I understand how you feel? I understand because I am called "gaijin." by 99.9% of Japanese.
You and I both know that "Gaijin" is not a shortened form of "Gaikokujin." So why do people call me "Gaijin?" I suspect that you would not call me a "gaijin." Until now...
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Almost every Japanese will say that they didn't know. Maybe it's the same reason why many will say here, "I didn't know!"
I do have a question though, Mr. Ida:
If Japanese say that they don't know, why do none of the 68 Japanese people I employ, or the hundreds I have interviewed, or the Japanese companies trying to do business with me
never use the word "gaijin" in any conversation - without me ever saying a word?
I don't confront people about calling me "gaijin." I can't change the world. But I completely understand your feeling.
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[Added: Next time you come to Kanto, I'll buy you a beer. Just don't call me "you-know-what."]