LOL Torque!!
StSanta.. I grew up and went to school in Southern Califonia. I'm a 'Valley Boy'. The family next door was Japanese, down the block we had an African American couple, across the street two Hispanic families. The house behind ours was owned by an Italian. Our mailman was polish, the milkman was swedish, and our school principal was so damn german nobody could understand him.
We had some great block parties.
And there; in the San Fernando valley, in a little town called Reseda; cupcake; wop; spic, jap, pollack, kraut, square-head, etc were fightin words.
Maybe in europe; they take it diffrently.. that's ok. But I was raised to show respect for my fellow citizens.. and the above slurs were considered a major fopah in my town, and we tend to keep the counsel or our social conditioning. Even though I now live and work 3,000 miles from where I was raised, I do not address a Japanese person as "Hey; you there.. yah, you; the JAP; hey; you got the time?"
Hang