Wasn't it Gunther Rall who had to spend some prison time with Rudel afterthe war. Well, Rall said he was mad!
To pick out the greatest hero of WW2 aviation is tough. Mölders is a good candidate, so is Douglas Bader, and so many many more.
BTW, regarding chute killing, a former German Wing commander (now a hobby historian) told me an interesting fact.
German Pilots parachuting could expect to be shot by either Red army or US aircraft, but very rarely by the RAF. However, that did occur, but a close study on those matters lead to the stunning fact that in those cases the Pilot was almost always from Poland!
Well,I guess their blood was boiling, and they had a reason.