Gofaster,
I know were you are coming from, my dad was an alky, and at one point a druggy.
The difference is, I know if alcohol were illegal, once he was addicted he would have found it and if alcohol was not available then it would have been drugs sooner. Unless you are talking fantasy land(lots of idealistic liberals especially pro gun control ones like this place) there is no way to ever get rid of booze or drugs, hell you can make booze in your back yard with a still. I do not blame the booze for his problem.
I blame him. My dad did not care enough about himself or me, or anyone else to turn his life around, and he died with a vodka bottle in his hand and I got to pick up the peaces.
He made his choices, and it was not the booze that killed him, it was the apathy for life and his lack of care for himself.
You are trying to blame the booze for your father’s flaws and for his lack of will in getting them fixed.
I know the truth, you can't blame the booze.