I'm not crazy about this idea either, or to be more clear...your idea sucks Furry, just like you!
I do like the idea of making the be a private msg to the intended recipient, tho. I think that'd be perfect.
Or, if it stays the way it is, could it be fixed so that the message that's presented uses the same case that the person's handle actually uses? IE: "SOB" instead of "sob".