Curious, alone on the 4th?

[Sixpence]

I understand JB, i've been there, hang in there kid. I'm not sure where you are, but I am just north of Boston, and we usually stay home on the holidays and grill. You are more than welcome to join us.

[ramzey]

Originally posted by JB73
anyone alone today? (noone to celebrate with)

myself i am, live alone, father lives 1000 miles away, mother has passed, step father and his family are together and i dont always fitr in there.

have a half sister living in town, and supposedly she's comming by but as of now i still havent heard from here, buddies all have wives, and they are out doing the family thing.

so here i sit debating if i should go get a 12'er or not.. nothgin else to do.


just curious if anyone else is in that position?

i will beat you

im myself and alone, wife is 20.000 miles away
and have not get payrol since 5 weeks (but im still employed and working every f*** day)
not much buddies around


heheheh

[Masherbrum]

Originally posted by Sixpence
I understand JB, i've been there, hang in there kid. I'm not sure where you are, but I am just north of Boston, and we usually stay home on the holidays and grill. You are more than welcome to join us.

he's in Milwaukee, met him at last year's con, good guy as well as JB42 (also in Milwaukee).

Karaya

[rpm]

Originally posted by JB73
so my "sister" came over (dad's second marrige)

20 min into showin them the new apt, she asks "am i cool'????

being outta touch i say yeah im cool with whatever,

BIG mistake, make them leave to parking lot to smoke their dope, (i AM the stpe child of the dmn village president ((mayor for you that dont knwo)))
all went soo downhill form there it's not worth mentioning.

31 is a ****ty age to be single.

OK, you should have asked her what she ment and stopped the incident before it happened. Ugly scene avoided. No harm, no foul.

You might want to check out the local "christian" dating scene. Lots of churches have singles groups and most of them don't get high. 31 is a ripe age for dating.
Quit whining and put that testosterone to use.

[Regular]

May I add that Jesus girls are pretty hot too.

[Staga]

I dated a girl-scout leader who was 10 years younger than me and was studying in university.
Pretty wild girl and a bit kinky too

[Maniac]

Ive seen plenty posts like this one from you now JB73, its apparent that you are/feel lonly...

You mention that all your friends are married, have children etc, the thing is you have to make new friends... and thats final...

I know it gets harder and harder to make new friends the older you get but you have to try...

Cant you meet new friends thru your old ones thats in the same  situation you are?

Do you have any side interests besides computers? sports? (30 aint too old to join a "team" of sorts).

Can you take any "night courses" to learn stuff and meet friends at the same time?

Can you meet friends at work? any work mates that you can become friends with etc?

Cant you find a bar and become a frequent visitor (in your area) and make friends that way?

I dont know what i would have done if i lost my "core" network of friends...

[Curval]

Although I don't get to celebrate July 4th as Independence Day as I am not American....I too am alone.  The wife and kids are all in Vancouver.  They have been there for 10 days and will be back in another 10 days.

wooooohoooo

Naked AH2 flying, fried fatty foods, dishes piled up, no clean clothes and no desire to do laundry, no crying children, no changing diapers, copius amounts of internet porn, etc etc.

It is just like being a bachelor again.

 Of course the place will be spotless when the wife gets home or I am in BIG trouble.

It is nice, but to be honest I have had enough already and am looking forward to having the family home.

[storch]

Originally posted by rpm371
OK, you should have asked her what she ment and stopped the incident before it happened. Ugly scene avoided. No harm, no foul.

You might want to check out the local "christian" dating scene. Lots of churches have singles groups and most of them don't get high. 31 is a ripe age for dating.
Quit whining and put that testosterone to use.

Sound advice,  there's plenty of girls out there your age who by now have married a tard and left him.  They may be towing around one or two proof of experience packages but they can be fun also.  My brother (who is the complete opposite of me) does nothing but date these types of girls.  He's 44 now and has been doing it since his 20's.  He never gets married though.  He stayed with one about eight years.  They're out there, lonely and really needing male companionship and support.

Girls like to talk, many girls consider the best conversationalist he who says little.  start a conversation then shut up and listen intently muttering the appropriate wow, really? OMG! and you'll have all the companionship you'll ever want.  If you know what I mean.

Good hunting.

post some photos.

[Masherbrum]

Originally posted by Curval
Although I don't get to celebrate July 4th as Independence Day as I am not American....I too am alone.  The wife and kids are all in Vancouver.  They have been there for 10 days and will be back in another 10 days.

wooooohoooo

Naked AH2 flying, fried fatty foods, dishes piled up, no clean clothes and no desire to do laundry, no crying children, no changing diapers, copius amounts of internet porn, etc etc.

It is just like being a bachelor again.

 Of course the place will be spotless when the wife gets home or I am in BIG trouble.

It is nice, but to be honest I have had enough already and am looking forward to having the family home.

I know this feeling Curval, watch the movie "About Schmidt" w/ Jack Nicholson.  My wife didn't get it.  Most men will, when it's just the husband, the house becaise a war zone.  

Karaya

[Airhead]

Originally posted by Staga
I dated a girl-scout leader who was 10 years younger than me and was studying in university.
Pretty wild girl and a bit kinky too

Oh man.... Did she have a uniform? And did she ever...uh.. wear it for you?

[rpm]

Heheh Curval...even before I read the fine print I was thinking "He's gonna spend 24 hours non-stop cleaning the day before she gets home".

[Curval]

Originally posted by rpm371
Heheh Curval...even before I read the fine print I was thinking "He's gonna spend 24 hours non-stop cleaning the day before she gets home".

Make that 48 hours and you are sooooo right.  

[Masherbrum]

Originally posted by rpm371
Heheh Curval...even before I read the fine print I was thinking "He's gonna spend 24 hours non-stop cleaning the day before she gets home".

My wife doesn't understand why men wait to "cram" and clean the house.  To tell her the truth though, I tell her "I don't know, but is the house the way you left it?"  "Welllll.....yes (this is as she is opening up closets, etc.).  "Then why ask me?".  

Karaya

[Curval]

Yea, my wife is under no illusions.  She wanted to clean the house herself before leaving but I told her to forget it knowing this would be a waste of time and that I would be going nuts getting the place ready before she returned.

So...the place was a mess the day she left anyway.  This way it will be nice for her to come home to a spotless house.

I actually started the job yesterday...out of necessity.  I went to grab some bread out of the fridge and the plastic bag was stuck to the shelf.  Something had spilled and was all over the shelves and underneath the lower drawers.  I removed everything and cleaned out the entire thing.  Looks brand spanking new now.  The wife will be pleased.