Look its real simple.....You can be Gay and in the military....you cant be openly gay. Dont ask Dont tell Dont persue.
Sorry sandman but the law is on the military's side! Rules are rules.
From personal experience I'm will te be half of these people are not actually Gay but used it as an excuse to get out of their contracts early.
There was an incedent at the monterey linquist school a year or two ago were they discharged 7 people from the service for being gay. This people were almost fully qualified arabic translaters. ONLY 2 OF THEM WERE ACTUALLY CAUGHT they rest of them came out. This was right before the invasion of afganistan.
These people broke the rules.....BOO HOO It is not a RIGHT to serve in the military it is a previlage!