Yes, the two field war does get kind of old and frustrating at times. You feel like a badger who can't fight his way out of a rabbit hole, surrounded by chipmunks.
When this happens I have to give up wanting to own any real estate. I fly just for the fun of it, or I log off. The worst condition is when the NME holds all the bases adjoining your HQ.
I fly Bishop's. About every other time I log on we only have 2 to 3 fields. At times I have been tempted to switch sides. Then attack my own bases, just to force a reset. So far I have resisted those urges, after all "It is Just a Game!".
All in all, this is nothing new. Pretty much been happening since I joined the AH Beta, and flew for Bishop's ever since. We Bishop's have won a few, but seem to have lost many more.
I very seldom see a force of inferior numbers accomplishing this "One Sidedness". Basically, If you have the numbers, most of the time you win.
Now, with the Knits such a formidable force. Whom ever gets "Gang Banged" the most, loses. The arena has changed, but the end results often have not. This is the game.
Good Luck in Losing your Wars!

Mino