Healthy heart first. Diet. Cardio. Get addicted to the endorphins. Then start losing weight through either weight lifting or strenous sport excercise. Make it a lifestyle choice and a committment to it for the rest of your life. Miss a week or two every now and then, splurge on the junkfood, but return to your routine soon after your "binge".
Brainwashing my kids, I tell the same para above as such:
Healthy heart first. Diet. Cardio. Get addicted to the endorphins. Then start gaining weight through either weight lifting or strenous sport excercise. Make it a lifestyle choice and a committment to it for the rest of your life. Miss a week or two every now and then, splurge on the junkfood, but return to your routine soon after your "binge".