No - I am not a russian nor a russian soldier

Nevertheless I admire much the russian culture as I also respect many other cultures in this world and try to learn as much from their history, so I can get at least a chance to understand these people.
I am glad that I have friends from Russia, Germany, France, USA, Brasil and other nations and I am proud that they consider me as a friend too.
And I consider history and culture as a key for understanding, why people from a nation act in a way others dont.
So I try to learn from them.
I have read in this forum many unrespectful stories about arabs, russians, french, americans and so on.
And there the problem starts: If someone shows no respect for another culture he defines it as inferior.
And instead of treating everyone as an equal conversation partner there are soon "friends" and "enemies", "superiors" and "inferiors" and then the chance of a real discussion and understanding dies in stupid flamings.
Back to your question: No - I am not a russian but its only a coincidence that I wasnt born in this great country which has an impressive and long history.
My real name is Babek and I am from Iran - another country with an old history and rich culture.
Iran is not only Khomeini and his mullahs - like Germany is not only Hitler and his Nazis.
It has a great history during the pre-islamic and also during the islamic period. A country full of poets, music, wonderful cities and also an old and complicated culture which was developed in the 2500 years Iran exists.
The people who live there are not monsters or terrorists - but they are still under the heavy influence of policy of foreign nations.
Not only the USA but all the other nations who were great powers during history and tried to use Iran as an ally/satellite/puppet.
I saw some results of these policy.
I was in Iran when the Shah ruled and also after the islamic revolution. I have been in an iranian city which was attacked during the Iran-Iraq-War by iraqui Scuds and have seen enough terror for a whole lifetime, because we didnt knew if the warheads of Saddam were equipped with gas weapons or not.
And no one in the world protested against these attacks, because we were defined as the "bad guys" and Saddam as the nice one.
Members of my family were killed during the revolution by islamic fanatics, others died as members of the iranian islamic army during the war against the arabs of Saddam.
But this didnt brought me to hate iraquis or arabs or sunnites or mullahs or whatever.
I only try to understand them and to get an answer to the question why they have their actual behavior, which elements influenced them, so they behave like they do and then to try to calculate what they will do in future if the actual parameters are not changed or if some of these parameters are changed.
The main problem in dealing with other nations is, that there is no real understanding or respect of their culture. Mostly own parameters and definitions of cultures are used.
As long as no one try to understand the "others" we will see situations like in Iraq today.
PS: Just a reminder: I know that my English is not good and I surely made many mistakes. But I tried to show you my point of view - hope that there was a little success
