Author Topic: Help me with moral dilemma (Read 823 times)

Nash · « **Reply #15 on:** August 24, 2004, 09:28:49 PM »

Oh yeah... Her birthday is no longer 9/11. It is now 8/18.

Nuts.

SunTracker · « **Reply #16 on:** August 24, 2004, 09:29:23 PM »

Nash, weddings in the 'bible belt' are a bit different from what you are thinking of.

One more question- Did you guys think your high school graduation ceremony was important?

Nash · « **Reply #17 on:** August 24, 2004, 09:34:38 PM »

Okay Suntracker, here's what ya do.

Turn off your monitor and close your eyes. Imagine a telephone conversation between you and the groom, where you are 100% completely honest with him about why you wish to back down from being his groomsman. Just run the tape. If at the end of it you don't think you've come across as a complete arse, then good times and happy snorkling.

Bodhi · « **Reply #18 on:** August 24, 2004, 11:00:22 PM »

SunTracker,

How long you been diving?

I have over 1500 dives. Am a former certified commercial saturation diver and still occasionally recreationally dive. Used to cave dive like mad when I lived in Florida. Bit of advice, if you were going to Truk Lagoon, or the Galapagos Islands, I'd say, GO! you are talking about diving a freshwater lake... they are fun when the ocean is not available, but, let it go, the lake will always be there.
Make your friend happy and go to his wedding.

Gunslinger · « **Reply #19 on:** August 24, 2004, 11:10:18 PM »

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Originally posted by Nash
Oh yeah... Her birthday is no longer 9/11. It is now 8/18.

Nuts.

I had no clue somone could actually change their Birthday.....intersting.

Seriously.....woman at weddings/receptions are usually pretty easy game if that's your thing.

Saurdaukar · « **Reply #20 on:** August 24, 2004, 11:58:29 PM »

Go to the wedding if you expect to be on the wife's "People my husband can speak to once a month without catching **** from me" list.

Saintaw · « **Reply #21 on:** August 25, 2004, 12:36:01 AM »

Wedding... lots more fish to catch/see there, trust me

J_A_B · « **Reply #22 on:** August 25, 2004, 12:39:43 AM »

Wedding or scuba diving? Ugh, not much to choose from, huh. Might as well go to the wedding, at least you won't have to risk being eaten by a sea monster (bridesmaids don't count).

Maybe you can wear your scuba gear to the wedding and have the best of both worlds. As a side effect, there's the added bonus of having your own air tank to breathe out of when confronted by hordes of portly women wearing gallons of nauseating perfume.

J_A_B

DREDIOCK · « **Reply #23 on:** August 25, 2004, 12:40:46 AM »

Better yet.

Do him a HUGE favor
Invite or kidnap the Groom to go diving instead of getting married

Anything less and your either a sadist or not a true friend LMAO

Holden McGroin · « **Reply #24 on:** August 25, 2004, 01:21:06 AM »

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Originally posted by Gunslinger
I had no clue somone could actually change their Birthday.....intersting.

QE II, Queen of England, Canada and some other places, was born in February or some winter month anyway, but the changed it to summertime to celebrate when there was better weather.

Leslie · « **Reply #25 on:** August 25, 2004, 02:29:50 AM »

Go to the wedding and have a wild time, is my advice. I agree weddings are boring, but it's something you gotta do for a friend.

Les

B17Skull12 · « **Reply #26 on:** August 25, 2004, 02:46:52 AM »

i have a friends birthday who is on 9/11. i remeber it so clear, he was inbetween mad and sad.

GreenCloud · « **Reply #27 on:** August 25, 2004, 03:01:35 AM »

lmfao..

tell " your friend" to go to hell

He must not be a good friend or even a friend of yours to want to attend one of the BiGGEst Events in his Life....and he wants you to be in it

so sounds to me hes not a friend of yours ..or he thinks u are ...you must be two faced

I think i hate you now too

heheh

i enjoy weddings..all the girls are freshly waxed..

I have been involved in over 100 weddings...dam fun

btw...9-11 strange date to pick indeed...but it is a weekend and they will sell you that date forsure...too sensitive for me

Mickey1992 · « **Reply #28 on:** August 25, 2004, 07:09:01 AM »

Who the hell changes a wedding date 2.5 weeks before the scheduled date?

Jackal1 · « **Reply #29 on:** August 25, 2004, 07:34:14 AM »

Here`s the solution. Catch your friend out of town. Go buy some cheap wine and get his girl sloshed. Bag her. Tell your friend aabout it. Wedding canceled. Enjoy the dive trip and take your friend with you.