Sounds like a wash, yeah.
Reminds me of a term we used to call it: "Horrified."
Usage:
"How'd it go, man?" "Not good - I horrified her"
Context:
Being completely smashed, confident, and walking up to some chick saying "GyungdafyYODOING?!" and watching as her expression turns from curiousity to fear.
Horrified.