If you are flying directly behind an opposing fighter and open fire, you are shooting at the sharp edge of the knife, not the broadside of a barn.
The angle of bullet impact on most all surfaces you could hit would be very close to parallel to any given surface rather than perpendicular. A near parallel strike just deflects a bullet only absorbing the energy that is required to redirect the bullet path.
Like in judo the effort to redirect is much less than required to absorb.
Even a shot perpindcular to an aircraft surface will likely only puncture the skin, causing minimal damage, as most of the volume in an a/c is empty space. Pop a hole through both sides of the fuselage, and unless a critical system is damaged, the plane will likely be able to fly home.
Take a random shot at the broadside of a barn and the barn will remain standing.