I agree,
Stealing is when you fight some plane and stop when a wing or tail is off, and then you see some other guy strafing the now dead / disabled plane.
I also been accused off stealing, but not when shooting at dead planes. (cos I dont shoot at dead planes.)
Once I was fighting a plane for 1-2 minutes high 15-20k 1v1, then he starts to run and a xSquad mate from a xSquad sees the running plane and tries to shoot it. When I zoom in with all my E past my xSquad mate and finish the job, I get an "Aaaah comon Stone, why did u steal my kill"
Doh !
Or this other time a guy anounces that there is a plane bellow, so I follow him in on the attack. Turns out the annoucement was ment to say "I saw him first, its my plane" not "Lets get this enemy plane". So when I get on the enemy planes 6 the guy goes "Oh u r not gona steal that plane from me now are you?"
Doh ! (well he did kill enemy E but still...)
Then I got pshyced up. Do I need written permission to shoot on a plane, if there is green planes in icon range?
So next time I saw a squad mate ropes a 190D and I get behind the 190D. Now just as I am about to fire, I think "Hmm now is that guy also gona accuse me from stealing his roped plane?". So I decied not to fire... Then I get the feeling that the rope is not gona work, and get a few shots off before I zoom past. When I get my nose down I can see the 190D killing my squad mate...
So I should had shot the 190D.
See what this stealing bs talk gets us...
I have roped countles times red planes, and when about to reverse, some other green plane comes and blows the guy away.
Does that feel frustating, shure it does. Do I accuse them of stealing? Hell no !
So only steal is when some one shoots at planes that are missing major parts. (eg. whole wing, whole backpart of ac)
Its stupid to waste ammo on disabled planes, just to make sure to get the kill.
Well at the moment I dont have an account, (got tierd of the hords 5 vs 50), but if (or when) I come back, please kill all red planes in front / behind or below / above me.
I dont think its stealing.