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Offline Crumpp

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« Reply #105 on: January 04, 2005, 08:59:52 PM »
Chairboy,

I know these words on a BBS are hollow comfort and nothing can be said to ease the pain of a lost loved one.

For what it is worth, my family will keep yours in our thoughts and prayers.

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« Reply #106 on: January 05, 2005, 10:13:01 AM »
There are a LOT of Americans that haven't called in yet, and you know how clueless Americans can be when traveling overseas, he could be anywhere.

Keep the faith.

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« Reply #107 on: January 05, 2005, 10:27:16 AM »
I have all of my fingers and toes crossed for your family Chair.

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« Reply #108 on: January 05, 2005, 02:06:57 PM »
any news?

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« Reply #109 on: January 05, 2005, 02:16:22 PM »
ya   it's so damn crazy over there right now.....

how do we know that any phones are up in the area that he is in?

Hell, i've been looking at pictures with trees and telephone poles all over the place.

I think there's a long road ahead before hope is gone on this one

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« Reply #110 on: January 05, 2005, 02:24:27 PM »
Hope isn't gone gone, but it's definately not at its strongest point.  He should have called by now, and there are friends looking for him that haven't been able to find him yet.
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« Reply #111 on: January 05, 2005, 03:09:47 PM »
They pulled someone out of the ocean 100 miles offshore that was still alive. Hang in there.

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« Reply #112 on: January 05, 2005, 03:16:39 PM »
Just don't give up hope Chairboy.  Prayers work wonders.

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« Reply #113 on: January 05, 2005, 04:00:43 PM »
.There is ALWAYS Hope!!!


ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. -- An Albuquerque man learned Tuesday that his sister made it through the South Asia tsunami alive.

Nicholas Campbell called Action 7 News to say that his sister, Nicole Furi, e-mailed him Tuesday to say she survived the killer waves.

The woman was staying in toejamet, Thailand, at the time the giant waves struck. She told him she was carried away by the water, but managed to swim to safety.

Campbell said his sister is now in Bangkok, Thailand



Well how about that?  There is always hope!

Hang in there Chairboy.

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« Reply #114 on: January 06, 2005, 12:49:58 PM »
Any news Chairboy?

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« Reply #115 on: January 06, 2005, 01:32:13 PM »
Nope.  The family has called off the private investigator.  Friends still over there looking, though.
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« Reply #116 on: January 07, 2005, 03:31:14 PM »
A quick update.  The PI reported one thing back of interest, he confirmed that they had checked into the Khaolak Orchid and were current guests, and that they were on the 3rd floor which was undamaged.  Of course, they were probably on the beach when it happened, so...  Their room was stripped, nothing in it, but he's guessing it was because of looting.  Nothing like a tragedy to bring out both the best and worst in people.

Our family is having a sort of get-together in Portland next Saturday, the day they were supposed to come back.  Some of us will probably be at the airport, 'just in case', but really..  at this point, they should have called.  Either way, there will be a sort of party thing to celebrate their lives or whatnot if they don't show, and a huge bash if somehow they did.  I don't know what to think, it seems really heartbreaking to see this thing getting set up and hopes made so high.  I think there are some in the family who might be crushed when they don't get off the plane.  Fingers are crossed, but...  geez, I don't know.

I'm torn up when I watch TV and see stories of survival and horror in Thailand and the other countries hit.  Whole families ripped apart, children dead, parents dead, having a family member involved really brought it all home.  In some ways, I feel guilty that ALL I lost was a single step brother when other people lost all their children.  It doesn't sound right when I say it or write it, but this thing is so bad for people over there, it's borderline incomprehensible, and I don't know which side of that border I'm on.  Every time I think I've figured it out, I see or read something that makes it five times worse.

Anyhow, that's the current status.
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« Reply #117 on: January 07, 2005, 04:25:52 PM »
Very tragic.  This tsunami killed more people than the Atomic bomb.

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« Reply #118 on: January 08, 2005, 08:38:04 AM »
Dont give up hope just yet

GALLE, Sri Lanka (CNN) -- After 13 days trapped under the rubble of a seaside shop, a man believed to be in his 60s Saturday was rushed to a hospital in the southern Sri Lankan city of Galle, able only to mumble his name.

Doctors at Karapitiya Hospital said he is suffering from pneumonia and severe hydration, but will certainly live.

"Miracles do happen," Dr. Chandra Pala Mudanngake said.


http://www.cnn.com/2005/WORLD/asiapcf/01/08/asia.tsunami/index.html

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« Reply #119 on: January 08, 2005, 12:56:08 PM »
Chairboy,

not to sound condesending but you are going through textbook stages of greif.  You should really look it up to help you understand what you are going through.  This dawned on me because you are talking about guilt.   I know this doesnt help much but greif is really a process.  I still hold out for the best though.