creamo... you are right about genetics and metabolism but... exercise and cutting down on eating will make you weigh less. Most fat people won't exercise. It is lifestyle too I think... I am hyper so that helps... No one in my family is particularly fat.
as for humping and age..... I can only tell you that I have allready been where you are at but you haven't made it to where I am at yet. I think you may be confusing the fact that being with the same woman for a couple of decades is the same as losing interest in sex with all women. You need to change women on occassion.
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