Originally posted by Nilsen
I have NO plans about letting it go any further than food and wine. In the 10+ years I have been with my GF I have _never_ strayed.
But this is something special.
you just have plans to let it go far enough that you can blame the actual result on the wine.
but yes it is something special.
completely Innocent. which is why your GF knows all about it, right? purely a coincidence that she's not home, right?
of course you're nervous. betraying someone who is less than 12 inches away while I sleep would make me edgy too.
of course if you don't get back together with the old GF, she will likely feel resentful and guilty and call up to confess the whole date (ya, thats what it's called. you are dating while your current GF is away) to your current GF in about 60-90 days. that would be best, just have the date, don't cheat and have the same consequences as if you did.
bone-head move. cancel or reschedule the re-union for a time when your GF knows about it ahead of time and be there if she has a problem with it.
around here, cooking another woman dinner while you're wife/GF is out of town could get a guy shot.
