So far as breaking cars, my mom is a professional. Had 3 VW bus's, 2 Ford Windstars, a Mitsubushi Montero and now working on a VW Passat. She literally, will destroy a car in under 60,000 miles.
I asked my CO if we could just give her **** to test out b/c we'll know rather quickly whether or not it is MILSPEC or not. I think our entire equipment testing regimine should be based on giving them to women, and IF they survive, then give the MILSPEC pimping of approval.
But otherwise yes, love the TSX - no problems other then a warrenty replacement of a wireharnass and window rocker switch. The Navigation option is generations ahead of what I-drive could ever hope to evolve into - I drove with it all the way across the US to my new home in cali with not a single map. Moving to a new area was indespensable, but importantly was intuitive and useful - I've been drivingin the 7 series BMW my parents just got for the last 2 days before flying over to Moscow tomorrow, and the I-drive totally kills the package b/c it is just plain retarded - aside from it being a kickass ride overall.
So to answer yr question - both companies are extremely high quality. It just depends on how much you want to spend - IMO though, the Honda line gives you better value - i.e. stuff comes standard in the TSX that you need to pay an extra 6-8,000 USD in the 3 series BMW to get - and even then falls short in many areas (i.e. Navigation).
Wolf