Guys,
thank you so much for all your input!
After many more hours of just taking off and touching down, and your hints and tips, I am getting a hold on how to do it!
Seems my most dominant problem was that I couldnt guess where the runway is relative to me. Or how to guess the terminal glidepath since its pretty difficult to peek over the hoods of a 109 or 190.
Getting down with an occasional bump, but nothing that catapults me back up 10 feet in the air as it used to be