Yeah, the big difference in growing up now, to me, is that everything a kid does is a capital crime.
Some kid calls another kid a name in the schoolyard, wham... suspended for two weeks.
Caught with a beer at a party? Wham, off the football team for the entire season.
Part of life is making mistakes. Not all mistakes should receive the "nuclear option" as a response.
That's what has really made a big change, IMO.