Everyone I know talks like that. It's just 'as a matter of fact' kind of thing.
As far as the rules go. If you really, honestly looked at them. They are only there to keep the board decent and respectful. If you, or anyone else, dose not like that, then so be it.
People are just wierd when they think they are being restricted. Intelligent people act like children when they think thier lollipop has been taken away from them.
People get paranoid and think someone is out to get them.
I realize those are generalities and do not apply to everyone, but I find it really bizarre how people will strive to make someone else the bad guy, when in fact, the only bad guy there can be is the poster themself.
I have often wondered about the people who insist on labeling people. According to Webster's that would be bigotry. Does not seem to bother some people though.
People make a lot of assumptions about how things are, how they think they are, or how who is doing what using which motives.
Here is a suggestion. Stop worrying about it and just discuss. If you have a fundamental problem with being civil towards others, or have no concept of right from wrong, then no amount of control is going to hide it long and it will just serve to make that person angry they cannot emit thier explosive poop on the unsuspecting masses.
You know what? We all have rules to live by. They may be personal rules or philosophies which we use everyday to live by, but they are rules which govern us. You do not have to like them, but you should respect them. We ask for no more or less.
EDIT: Clifra, I apologize for this blatant hijack. Wotan, if you want to discuss this further, email me. Thank you.