Devil I gotta ask,
Why do you wear your ribbons 4 accross on your service alphas?  I allways thought it was 3 accross until you get a certain amount of rows then you are permitted 4 accross.  Correct me if I'm wrong of course I only had 4 total when I got out of the corps so I never had to worry bout that.  
Never was much for awards...too much politics involved in my old unit.  The only NAM's they gave out for 3 years was to Minority single mothers for "overcoming adversity" Direct quote from one of my COs.......stupid air wing BS.
You have a beautiful family btw
Good luck devil dog, Semper fi,