Hi Parker,
Originally posted by parker00
Hate to rain on your parade but so do heterosexual relationships. I know many more people who end up cheating on their spouse then don't anymore.
We could go back and forth on anecdotal evidence based on the people we associate with or our own lives all day. (For instance, most of the married couples I know have monogamous relationships, have been or will end up being married for more than a decade and have not physically cheated on their spouse. I myself have been married for 11 years and fall into that category.) But we don't need to do that, there are actually people who make a living compiling statistics about this stuff.
So for instance, a 2001 National Center for Health Statistics study on marriage and divorce statistics reported that 66 percent of first marriages last ten years or longer, with fifty percent lasting twenty years or longer and this data was confirmed by a 2002 U.S. Census Bureau study which reported similar results, with 57.7 percent staying married for twenty years or longer.
Additionally while the stats across the board are trending downward as marriage and societal constraints continue to unravel, the level of monogamy in heterosexual marriage is still around 85% for women and 75% for men. This is contrasted with around 4.5 % for homosexual males (Laumann, The Social Organization of Sexuality, McWhirter and Mattison, The Male Couple: How Relationships Develop) and that data is supported by Homosexual publications and organizations which feel that "monogamy" is an alien and unwelcome concept in the homosexual lifestyle. Put simply, monogamy is something straights are concerned about not gays, therefore it should not be forced to be part of a gay definition of marriage anymore than one man and one woman should be.
Anywho, all of this is piling up so much sand against the tide coming in, eventually we will see homosexual marriage in the USA, probably by means of court dictat, and all the stats or treatises or ethical arguments or popular votes in the world aren't going to stop the Western intelligentsia from making their desires the law of the land. So Parker, regardless of the validity of your arguments, it doesn't take a prophet to forsee that you and Hawk will eventually get what you want.
- SEAGOON