I hoping the parties involved are either 14, or 40+ and miserable. There is no other excuse.
Once upon a time ,back in the 20th century, there was something called humor. It was believed to reduce stress among the populace. Each different race, class, and sex had their own jokes(what humor was often based on) that made fun of those who differed from them. As the century ended, so did humor. It seems everyone became a victim, and alas, humor died. Welcome to a gray new world.