Hello SOB,
Originally posted by SOB
You should start a commune, Seagoon. Just make sure to pay your taxes and don't have a small arsenal. Then your kids could be sheltered from the evil non-Christians.
Forgive me for being somewhat bitter in my reply above. It was inappropriate.
Please don't misunderstand me, I understand that I am commanded to remain in the world, rather than withdrawing to form some sort of commune, or adopting an Amish approach to life (as much as I am sure there are many who would prefer it if I did
). In fact, to do so would be to go against Christ's commandment to go into the all the nations, and to teach men to be his disciples (Matt. 28:19-20) and to be the light and the salt of the earth. But sometimes I chafe under the other assurances Christians have received from Christ, that in the world we will have tribulation and be hated. (John 16:33, John 15:18-20). Intellectually, I can understand it, but the practical outworking of living through it for many years begins to grind. But hey, then again, I have no cause to be ungrateful, especially considering I live in the most "Christian friendly" nation on earth.
It is not so much wanting my kids to be sheltered from the "evil non-Christians" nor would I for a moment allege that I and my children don't have our own sin problems. What I would like to shelter them from if it were possible, is the coarsening of society that has come as a direct result of our being cast adrift into the moribund sea of secular humanism. The long term effects on our society, of refusing to acknowledge God, biblical ethics, the concept of absolute truth, or the concept that there will indeed be a final judgment, is making western society a progressively more horrible place in which to raise children.
Just going to mall and seeing the general decline in civility and behavior since I was a young pagan thug in High School 20 years ago is depressing. Walking in the other day with my kids, we had the fun of witnessing a catfight at the entrance between two teenaged girls after one screeched a warning to the other about the dangers of trying to "xxxx my boyfriend". I'm guessing they were 15 or 16. Behavior like that used to be reserved for the worst sections of the dockyards 100 years ago, but now its becoming all-pervasive.
This past weekend we went to Chuckie Cheese (man I hate that place) and my daughter got "farmed" of her tokens by some older boys while I was taking my son to the bathroom. They discovered that since we have taught her to share, if they asked for some tokens she would give them. By the time I got there they were taking handfuls out of her cup. The mothers of these boys were actually sitting at a table not too far away as their boys stole tokens from a 5 year old. My three year old Son on the other hand, learned a wonderful lesson. The boy next to him played a game and won some tickets but didn't take them with him when he left the machine. My son spotted the tickets and immediately snatched them up before I could say anything and ran after the boy finally finding him across the room with his parents getting ready to go. My son handed him the strip and said "You forgot your tickets." The boy snatched them up and turned around. That kind of impolite behavior didn't amaze me, what did is that neither of his parents did anything either. The idea of saying "thank you" was apparently lost on the entire family of old. But then again, if might makes right, and the strong prosper and the weak die, and we are all just animals constructed by time and chance and life is the oddity and death the constant, then what does saying "thank you" to a three year old matter? In that case neither saying "thank you" nor pushing him down and taking his is wrong or right. More fool my son for not pocketing the tickets, eh?
By contrast, the funny thing is, although our congregation is made up of converts to Christianity like myself, you can already see a difference in the behavior of our kids. Is their behavior perfect? Not at all. You can still see selfishness and so on. But the difference in their language, general level of respect especially towards elders, willingness to obey, patience, modesty of clothing, and attitude towards learning (seeing it as a gracious benefit rather than a mark of being a dweeb) is profound. Why? Because they are both being affected bit by bit by grace, and also because they are being taught to deny self, to take up the cross, to esteem others more highly themselves, and to obey God's commands out of love. You may end up hating and despising everything they believe, and think they are a bunch of brainwashed throw-backs to an earlier era, but in a few years when you are elderly, and they are grown up, these are the kids you'll hope are walking towards you in the dark alleyway, not the "I'll do whatever seems right in my own eyes" type.
The funny thing is even immigrants from other countries can see what our "Death of God" Nihilism is doing to our cultures. Recently for instance, David Lacy, the Moderator of the tremendously liberal "we don't believe the bible either" Church of Scotland was one of many British religious leaders approached by Muslim and Hindu leaders who begged them to abandon multiculturalism and be more "strident" in teaching Christian beliefs. They see that British culture is falling apart at a rate that far exceeds their ability to convert Britons to their faiths, and which has a negative effect on their children and families. The response of Lacy was predictably "NO", they are committed to following the humanist bandwagon off the cultural cliff. Atheistic Humanism and absolute autonomy uber alles. What does it matter if it is a death sentence for the institution of the family?
Ah well, thats the culture. I'll live in it, I'll work with it, but I'll demure from sending my children to its schools as long as I can.