Marvelous, welcome to AH2

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Nope no elves here, just lots of requests for sheep

. And a great community.
As has been said before, check your Joystick calibration/setting both windows and ingame.
When your looking to buy a new Joystick, well.... depends on how much $$ you want to spend. Top Flight control gears are certainly the Saitek (X52) and CH Setups. But if you dont want to spend a fortune on a Joystick and rudder pedals (yet), a low end (price wise) Joystick will do the trick. I myself have been flying with a $40 Speedlink "Black Widow" Joystick for over a year now and was very happy with it.
What i would suggest is that you get someting that has at least a headswitch (for views), throttle, some rudder control (twisty or rocker switch) and about 8 buttons or more. It also needs to fit your hand comfortably.
Force Feedback is (theoretically) supported by the game, but i personally have never gotten it to work and know of noone that flies with it.
As for plane handling. I usually recommend Spitfire Mk8 or Spitfire Mk9 for starters, since they have a good overall performance and a very forgiving handling. And do yourself a huge favor and disable the "Stall Limiter" in Setup>Preferences>Flight. It makes handling a little more difficult (since too hard stick inputs will make you stallout) but youll have to turn it off eventually (it hinders your performance greatly) - better not get used to it in the first place.
Now dont be shy to 'embarrass' yourself online and come to the TA for practice. Lots of people with hints and tips there, that will answer almost any question you have about this game. And we always enjoy good areobatics

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For readups, tips, "keymap sheets", radio lingo and all sort of other useful stuff - check out
Hammer's Netaces Page.
See you up soon in the TA

>S< Schatzi