phookat, I would take him up on that one.  If you ever get to this area, allow me to take you to my "toy" shop and let you listen to some amps.  I have sold a fair number of high end amps and speakers due to the fact that people can hear the difference, quite easily.  It can be very apparent.
Now, with that said, I will agree you would be hard pressed to hear the difference between a $2,000 amp and a $10,000 amp.  Once you get to a certain level the differences become quite small.  Same goes for speakers.  The difference between a $10,000 speaker and a $2,000 speaker can be quite small.
But, it is quite easy to hear the differnce between an $1,000 amp and a $2,000 amp.  And it is quite easy to hear the difference between a $1,000 speaker and a $10,000 speaker.  The differences will depend on the material played through them, and the room acoustics.  Some material just sucks no matter what.  Some doesn't.