Elfie...
You know Lazs, if civil gay marriage become a reality, you won't be forced to go to gay weddings, wipe a tear, get drunk and dance on country music all night long... So where's YOUR problem?
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Jackal1, has a civil wedding the same value to you than a church weeding?
You can check the edit timestamps if you don't believe me.
Apples and apples? Not at all:
...sigh, once again:
Perverts? Yes...to your eyes mostly as homosexuality isn't forbidden by law as child molestation is. Btw, gay marriage is between two consenting adults. The molested child is not consenting (even if he says that he is, his young age voids this affirmation) and is a victim.
The fact that you qualify homosexuality as a perversion has no value: there are no laws punishing this sexual practice.
Seagoon,
First of all, thanks for your post. I've quickly browsed your essay (I'll admit that a lot of references fly way above my head) and I have a general remark:
I find it a bit strange that, while you're claiming that god has said that 'he hates divorce', you're feeling that you have to make a study about what kind of divorces are acceptable religiously just because, in our society, divorce has become very frequent. OTOH, you're staying 'hardcore' on your position about same-sex marriage. This looks a bit like adopting a double standard under social pressure.
About the marriage procedure in Belgium: you have to be civilly married (by the 'mayor' or one of his/her officers) before you may go to the church to be married according to your religion. This is the same procedure for the 5 recognized religions in Belgium. The only exception is if one or both of the couple wishing to marry is at risk to die imminently (disease, accident...), a priest, rabbin,... may perform the marriage ritual immediately. This is defined in a law.
If gay marriage becomes a reality, I'll join Chairboy and the others by defending the right to religions to refuse to perform gay marriages. I'm as much a partisan of the church kept out of the state as of the state kept out of churches (providing the general human rights are respected). Both situations are equally dangerous.
Lazs,
I don't follow your logic that, as gays have more promiscuous behaviours than heterosexuals, they'll be more at risk to contract STDs if gay marriage is allowed. I really don't see how the marriage will INCREASE the risks. At the very worst, it won't diminish it and at best (if both partners stop fooling around), it will cancel it. Not a win-win situation but at least a stalemate-win.