I'll second Max's sentiment, and add a rant of my own.
Although it may seem that some people "get away with stuff", I believe closer examination will reveal the differences between them and those that get smacked. It is not just what the whines are about, but how they are expressed. As long as the disagreements are respectful, there is no problem. When you begin hurling personal assaults, question HTCs integrity, things of this nature, you get smacked quick.
IMHO, HTC has been more than tolerant with many on the boards. If he seems strict now, it is only because he was lenient before. Just because someone "got away with it" a year ago, doesn't make it right. Etc. etc. Bottom line, follow golden rule, and you will have no problems.