it is believed that the loss of ones parents is the first step into emotional maturity.
no matter what age you are.
the only thing that you need is to know that your mother lived well (which it is apparent she did) and died accomplished. and you are now ready to take the rest of life on your own.
this is one of the hardest obstacles you will ever have to face. i know you and your brother will honor the death of your mother by staying strong and remembering her.
i do not know you but as a fellow human being i understand the loss as i have lost my father, and i pain that anyone has to feel this, even though it is a necessary part of human growth.
my deepest and most sincere condolences and sympathy my friend.
sure this is just some text on the internet but just remember somone in seattle wrote it sitting behind his computer desk. recognizing that ur mother was a great woman.
--london