I believe option 2 is true patriotism. The first thing described at the begining of this thread is blatant Nationalism, and should only be confused with patriotism at a nation's peril.
Far too many people now adays fail to make the destinction. The government is the most eager to lead people astray like this, making it seem that if you are not an entusiastic follower that you are not a patriot, or are even worse a traitor. Nationalism leads quickly to fascism, and other forms of despotism, and I fear that this country is quickly sinking into that trap.
If you havn't read it already, check this out and see what you think for yourself.
http://ellensplace.net/fascism.htmlhttp://www.oldamericancentury.org/14pts.htmTrue patriots won't be afraid to give it a shot.
True patriots can question their own country in the hopes of rectifying faults.
True patriots fail to settle for something that's good when they know that something better is out there.
True patriots have the courage to question their country, their government and themselves.
True patriots are not so cowardly as to go along with a government agenda that is absent of justification or moral credibility.
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Following one political party or another, unflinchingly and unquestioningly, is even more dangerous than Nationalism. It is an internal form of Nationalism, and partisan politics will be what finally tears the fabric of America.