So, here's my point.
It's happening and we have a slice of it.
First step of global warming debates was: It's happening.
Denialists said, noo...it aint.
Now, even you are a step further.
Step 2, yeah it's happening, but it's only natural.
Step 2b is "No one here has been able.... nor any scientist been able... to tell how much of the natural warming cycle is man made or, more importantly....what and if we can do about it."
Step 3 is where many of the scientists are now, - Dang, it's happening and it is very much of our fault.
And this from you is a strawman:
"sooo we need to change our lifestyles and put on hairshirts and live in caves till it all goes away."
Who said that? You did.
Why? Because that is about as far as you are ready to go with the thought.
I'll give you a thought of mine.
We will need to change our lifestile, as we did when the declination of the ozone layer was being countered. That didn't really put you on a hairshirt did it? However, this one is a much bigger issue. But down to hairshirt....no.
There is a long way between some change of lifestyle down to the hairshirt you see.