Author Topic: Ultimate ultimatum (Read 1467 times)

Tarmac · « **Reply #15 on:** September 19, 2006, 06:54:45 PM »

Fair enough. I figured that's why you were asking, I just wanted to make sure you also had figured out that's why you were asking.

Elfie · « **Reply #16 on:** September 19, 2006, 07:01:44 PM »

Neubob, might I suggest a Christian marriage couselor? If the idea of a *Christian* counselor offends you, there are plenty of non-christian marriage counselors as well.

ROC · « **Reply #17 on:** September 19, 2006, 07:06:33 PM »

When my wife and I first got together, we couldn't go anywhere without running into some babe I knew.

Still do, I'm very social, but she doesn't get offended by who I know. She always just smiles at them with a grin like "You had him but I kept him" type of chick thing. That is Confidence, always trumps insecurity which is the root of jealousy.

18 years now, not bad. You gotta be open enough to allow each other to actually have had a life before each other, or as posted before, move on till you find that one.

Golfer · « **Reply #18 on:** September 19, 2006, 07:10:02 PM »

B**ch making you choose between her and your mother? She's not worth the bruise on her bellybutton when you kick her to the curb.

superpug1 · « **Reply #19 on:** September 19, 2006, 07:23:35 PM »

Man, that sucks. I almost went out with a girl like that once. . . We were dating and i ran into one of my Ex-GFs and said hi. Im still friends with almost all of them...im still in high school though so that may nt be to many by yalls standards...back on topic, she got all withdrawn and stuff during and after tha meeting, even after i introduced her. She wouldnt even hold my hand after that. Then on the car ride home she gave me an altimatum much like yours. said If you wanna go out with me, you will have to lose all your little friends (talking bout my friends who are girls). I thought it over for a night. I really wanted her, she was smokin hot, but i wasnt going to give up so many friendships for one girl who obviously wasnt mature or secure enough to deal such a relationship.
you just gotta weigh your options. Woman who cant cope with a guy that obviously has a life, or parents who have provided for you and will no doubt continue to provide.
Id go with tha rents...just my two cents.

SuperDud · « **Reply #20 on:** September 19, 2006, 08:19:58 PM »

I'd tell the girl to go pound salt. You never go against mom no matter who it's for. Tell her to grow up, maybe smack her around a bit, then simply go have her cook you dinner. When I find a girl that's what I'm going to do:D

OK seriously, sounds like a crappy situation. I'd definatley tell her your not gonna stop talking to your mother though, that's just crazy!

Oh also I think Scherf is 100% right. I had a girl like that once.

AquaShrimp · « **Reply #21 on:** September 19, 2006, 08:35:33 PM »

Cut the umbilical chord. You are probably unhealthily close with your mom.

Golfer · « **Reply #22 on:** September 19, 2006, 08:47:40 PM »

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Originally posted by AquaShrimp
Cut the umbilical chord. You are probably unhealthily close with your mom.

Just so it gets saved.

We aren't all still mad at our parents, bud.

AquaShrimp · « **Reply #23 on:** September 19, 2006, 08:56:33 PM »

Haha, Golfer, you're still mad from the other thread.

Of course you're not mad at your mom Golfer, you need her to be there to comfort you when your abrasive personality runs off any acquantinces or friends you might have.

Debonair · « **Reply #24 on:** September 19, 2006, 08:58:53 PM »

next thing she'll tell you you're not allowed to post photos of sandwiches on teh 'tardnet:furious

u--->

<----her

Dago · « **Reply #25 on:** September 19, 2006, 09:19:13 PM »

Believe this, there are better women in your future, one who wont drive you nuts or force you to choose between your family and her.

If you are fortunate enough to be close to your family, cherish that, and let her walk. Kick her in the bellybutton if she doesnt walk fast enough.

There are better babes out there.

Neubob · « **Reply #26 on:** September 19, 2006, 09:28:26 PM »

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Originally posted by AquaShrimp
Cut the umbilical chord. You are probably unhealthily close with your mom.

I talk to her a couple times a week. Ask her how she feels, and let her know that I'm fine. Beyond that, I may tell her an anecdote or two about my day 2-3 minutes tops. She lives 2 hours away and I visit about once every 2 months or so.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with that... On the other hand, if it is too much, the woman I love could at least nurture whatever independance she thinks I oughta have--not impose it with an iron fist.

The more I think about this, the more rediculous it sounds.

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Originally posted by Debonair
next thing she'll tell you you're not allowed to post photos of sandwiches on teh 'tardnet:furious

u---> <----her

Now for that, I WILL not stand!!!

Yeager · « **Reply #27 on:** September 19, 2006, 09:42:41 PM »

Dude seriously, find another woman. You are wasting your time on this one, already sounds like you have wasted a year or more of your life. There are just too many wonderful women in this world to waste your time on the whackos.

Golfer · « **Reply #28 on:** September 19, 2006, 09:44:46 PM »

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Originally posted by AquaShrimp
your abrasive personality runs off any acquantinces or friends you might have.

Only the ones I'd never want as such in the first place.

I won't comment further seriously on this because if you knew me in the least you'd realize how much of a jerk thing talking about mothers is...no matter how tongue in cheek.

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Now...good man Neubob. Just as long as it's never your mother-in-law you talk to several times a week

asilvia · « **Reply #29 on:** September 19, 2006, 11:54:33 PM »

Make sure your on the phone with your mom when your kicking her out your door