John,
I agree, and I think HT is on the right track.
If Dantoo is that unhappy, he should just leave and stop *****ing about it. Dont post a "suicide note" on the BBS, dont throw any bombs at HT, just stop paying and leave.
Of course, the percentage of people who threaten to quit and then actually follow through with that threat is pretty small I'd bet. These kind of hollow threats are not about the game or how HT runs it, its about "I'm going to stamp my feet and hold my breath until I get what I want!!".