Mrs68KO,
Your late husband had a powerful and positive effect on many people who play this game. Many of us, most of us I believe.... understand the depth of you and your loved ones loss.
Believe me, as we haggle over ideas on if, how, what, where, when, why, why not and other such issues dealing with our system of online community remembrance, that this is what we do here in the O'club. We haggle over everything. Its in our nature to debate. Mostly it stays cool, a few get over the top. It should in no way be construed to represent anything but the flow of ideas in motion. Its a freedom I guess. I just wanted to say this, and I am positive that EVERYONE here, has nothing but the most sincere respect for you and all your entire extended family in your time of deep personal grief. Just wanted to say that.