When your gear are on the deck of a CV the only way you can fly is forward (the CV pushes up). The hook keeps you in place, and so you don't need to be in control, unless the hook fails to catch and then you gently nose back up.
In a corsair in this game you can pop flaps, gear, full rudder side slip and aileron to compensate and decelerate JUST as fast, only while maintaining perfect control on 3 sets of controls (ailerons elevators and rudder) when in fact if you TRIED to hold your arms to your chest you probably couldn't. Car crash test show that even light items cannot be held in even 20mph accidents. They fly out of your hands. If you were trying to hold onto the control stick at this time your hands would still be pulled forward (thus pushing the stick forward, thus nosing you down uncontrollably until you had fully decelerated), and forget trying to hold the stick to a point where you could control the side-slip rudder at the same time as decelerating.
Ever try the ... whattaya call it? Tilt-a-whirl? You're inside being held to the wall by centrifugal force. You literally cannot extend your head, arm, or legs away from you. Same (in reverse) for this f4u situation. You could not keep your arms coordinated and in control even if you wanted. And while they're being pulled if you're holding onto the stick, the stick is going to follow them (and they're going "forward").