Let me ask a question... if a gay guy gets on the tube and says he hates heterosexuals, what would happen? Nothing, that's what. Rosie O'Donnell comes pretty darn close at times, and folks just love her. Free pass. And boy, does she and her ilk take the pot shots at religion.
Could be what is really hardwired into white Anglo-Saxon populations is guilt. You know, gotta be sorry for this, gotta be sorry for that. Gotta prove that sensitivity all the time. Heaven forbid someone label you a homophobe or something. Gotta go over the top to prove your "okayness with gayness". Oh, the chest-thumping we see! Sorry, I don't wanna be that enlightened.
I believe homosexuality is wrong based on religious beliefs. That isn't going to change, but that doesn't mean I am going to do anything to or about gay people. I will vote against any agenda that attempts to normalize it, but that's about it. I certainly don't want my kids to be fed the line it's normal behavior. That's my right as a parent, and I don't really care what anyone thinks about it.
I still interact with them, still work with them, just like everyone else. I don't want to know anything about their personal lives any more than I want to hear the latest drama from any other co-worker.
Tim Hardaway was an idiot to say what he said. It was full of hate and malice, and that is totally unnecessary. He could disagree with the concept and not hate the person in the process.