since ones word around here is worthless without proof.
Your expectations are too high. You are a line of text to most people, few know you, even if you have "Lots of Friends" compared to the subscription base "Few" know you.
Don't take it personally if no one believes you, false accusations and off the cuff reactions are the norm. HT deals with Fact, not speculation and insinuation, so simply send them facts as you stated and dismiss your interpretation of the value of ones "word"
My apologies to croduh for being accusatory in my initial thread.
Which is exactly my point

Had your "Word" been enough, someone would have been penalized for your accusation.
Nice job getting to the root and having the conversation. My main reason for posting is perhaps others might take a breath before jumping in headfirst.