I recall three instances in AH1:
1.) Flew into a base, in LA7. I get tangled up with a Yak. We duke it out for almost 10 minutes. I could have HO'd him many times, and he could have done the same. He ran out of fuel near his base, I broke off and let him land. Then I see SYSTEM: Channel 1: IceMAW <> to the La7 who didn't HO. I saluted back, and flew with MAW in Friday Night Ops for a few months.
2.) I get into it with a 109F4, and I'm in a spit 9. For almost 15 minutes we are turning, climbing, dodging, diving, etc. I hit his Oil, he got a flap. I had used up my cannon. I typed on Channel 1 that I was bingo cannon. All of a sudden, I get a huge "Thank You" from shamus. We both saw it as a great fight, even though no kill was awarded. We never "HO'd", just had an intense fight for 15 minutes, and went rtb.
3.) I recall a fight in Pizza map. Bish attack our field. I up an La7 and quickly get 4, refuel, get 2. Upon the 2nd rearm I notice another La7. We get into one of the best fights I have ever been in. I end up losing both ailerons, both elevators, and both flaps. His plane was banged up good too, and he asked who it was on Channel 1. I replied and he asked "Why are you headed away from your base?" I told him I only had the rudder left as a control surface. He showed me quarter because "if you can land that plane in that bad of shape, I need to see it". I landed, and he never let me forget about that fight. It was SECOmust.
I still get PM's from some of the older crowd of simmers, for quarter. To me, if yer that hellbent on bottomfeeding an oil dripping, water venting beat up cartoon airplane then good for you. But if someone gives me a good fight, I'll let him go, provided he doesn't turn around. I don't need kills that bad to improve my score. I think a lot of people that play this game, take it WAY too serious.
I know FOR A FACT that if I get into fight with someone like SkyRock, Dolfo, Corky, Silat, shamus, rob53, Hajo, and many others. If I'm that beat up or they, quarter CAN/and WILL BE shown. It's happened to many times to count. It's just rarer to come across these guys. As they know I'm not out "to get every kill possible". Hell, there are times where I have never pulled the trigger, but have had some of the best turnfights. For me now, it's about the fight, and less about the kills.
The bottom line is this, while the above incidents may seem like embellishment, they are not so. They are merely examples of "courtesy".