Texasmom,
Flying is fun

Find yourself someone around your own skill level who has the same frustrations and head on into the TA with each other. Grab your favorite planes (same or different, in the TA, it really doesn't matter), grab a light fuel load (I'd suggest 50 because by the time you're at 25 in most planes in the MA, you're rtb and thus training with it doesn't make much sense IMO), and just have at it for a few ammo loads.
Then find someone a little bit better than you and do the same thing.
Finally, find someone a whole lot better than you and repeat the process again.
You'll be up to speed in no time, and I guarantee you'll have a blast in the meanwhile
