Connery,
Killshooter is, by far, the lesser of two evils. I explained in detail why already.
Your SA is your responsibility. YOu need to be aware of the positions of friendlies and enemies, not just enemies.
If you are getting killed by killshooter often it is your problem that you have to learn to fix. I don't play much anymore, but in the years and thousands of kills I got while I did fly I kill shot myself less than 10 times.