The "HO" issue isnt always going to go away. To me a "HO" occurs on the merge. Now in a good one on one the trick is to pass on "mutual front quarter" shots. Sometimes thats a very grey area, TC felt I took a marginal such shot on him at one point. From his view we were apparently very close to nose to nose at the top of a vertical....from my end he'd stalled out a bit earlier and i had canopy shot from a FQ view. He had no problem voicing his thoughts and I took zero offense at his comment and simply recognized we had a slight bit of lag between us and flew slightly different lines to minimize that issue from then on. A bit earlier I ran into jamusta's 38 when he inadvetently spun it out...simply shot thru him and then ran into him....again no biggie....wasnt on purpose from either side...
I actually have high hopes for the avengers, given time and some gentle massaging they may be a good thing for the AvA....