Originally posted by Thruster
"Sooo... some cowardly bastard ambushes a female officer in a dark parking lot, knocks her in the head, rapes her and she gets discharged for getting pregnant... I see. "
No I can tell you don't see.
Assuming a military officer would fall victim to an assault speaks to that officer's decision making capacities. And I know the canned response.......
Victims of violent crime are almost universally guilty of placing themselves at risk. That is not to say they did something wrong, just did not do something smart.
I also resent the N.O.W. strategy of pulling the rape card whenever their procreative realities and responsibilities are discussed. For some years it's been the primary moral argument used to rationalize abortion also. I don't buy it.
Women have supposedly fought long and hard for "equality", they want the "benefits" commonly granted the male constituency but still resist the idea that certain obligations and responsibilities come with those "rights".
"So would you recommend women who are destined to be career officers to have their tubes tied by the government or voluntarily do so to protect their career?"
I suggest that if you are susceptible to being impregnated and consequently are responsible for bringing a new life into the world with all the commitments that obligation carries, I suggest one should be extremely mindful of their actions. And behave accordingly. Tubal ligation is one of many options, maybe a bit on the extreme end. There's also I.U.D.s, Depo Provera and it's alternatives, maybe even a little personal restraint.
To answer what I believe is your real question, no, I don't think mothers should be soldiers. Comparing our military to that of armies under siege is at the least insulting to those who serve, irrespective of gender.
Using alarmist exceptions to the rule is a common tactic we see in many facets of modern society. I sincerely doubt that all things being equal, your theoretical victim would have to deal with a policy that would logically be applied to those who conceived in a more conventional method.
"In any event, I am not too worried about military discharge of females due to pregnancy... it's not on the books and I doubt it ever will be in the future, thus this entire subject is moot and irrelevant."
And I assure you that if frontline effectiveness is sufficiently compromised and the practice of rotating and accommodating too many preggers marines becomes unworkable, yes they will start to discharge personnel who are unable to competently fulfill their duties be they physical or intellectual in nature
Hi Thruster,
Nice getting a chance to get to know you better, and you, me.
In case you didn't know, I am not an equal rights male-bashing feminist; my prior postings will reflect that. Additionaly, I like men and respect men for who and what they are.
I certainly agree with you that active women combatants in a war zone need to be responsible for themselves with regards to prevention of pregnancy.
I also want to compliment you on your articulate writing and obvious attention and desire to explain your views clearly.
I have a lot of respect for that.
As far as the concept of "equals" is concerned... males and females are "different" yet both are equally and fully human; Females are no less human than males.
That is to say, the human race is not "Mankind" it is "Humankind." The fact that it was ever referred to as mankind points to the historical de-humanization of women in the past.
Intentionally disrespecting and demeaning humans on the basis of gender, or ethnicity, or wealth, or any other issue which differentiate humans socially, thus relegating them to a status of less than human, is something I do not abide and never will.
I don't believe you are consciously doing that, but some men and women with self-inferiority issues do do that.
I think you would agree what a miserable example of a man it is who is compelled to put down women for the purpose of make himself feel like a man.
There are plenty of men posting on this thread who give credit where credit is due to women and do so without diminishing themselves as real men.
Again, I am not implying you are purposefully putting women down.
TIGERESS