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Offline rpm

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« on: December 24, 2007, 12:27:44 AM »
Man, were we busy at the store today! Around 3:30 the place was packed and I had lines at all registers. I was running back and forth trying to put out customer service fires when I get paged. "Uh, you need to get up here." I ask what the problem is and they say "Just get up here quick."

OK, Spidey senses are tingling now. Most likely a shoplifer I thought as I made way for the front of the store. I can hear some commotion going on now and I thought I heard a scream so I kick it into high gear not knowing what I was heading for.

I come round the corner and almost plow over a little old lady standing with her back to me. I still don't see where the screams are coming from but I can clearly hear them. Whiskey Tango Foxtrot?  I walk a couple steps and then saw the source.

"I WANT THAT TOY!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!"

A freaking 7-8 year old kid is throwing a tantrum because Momma won't buy him a remote control toy. He was lying on his back arms and legs flailing throwing a 110% hissy fit. So what does Mom do? She walked out of the store and left him there.  

That's good parenting.

I got her description, told one of my checkers that has children to get the kid up and out of the way so we could get the line moving. I took off in search of the Mother. I search the parking lot and found her sitting in her car listening to the radio.

"Lady, you need to come get your kid!" She looked at me like I had just insulted her. "He'll get tired and come on out," she said shaking her head as she talked "and you need to mind your own business."

"Lady, you come get your kid or I'm calling the police."

She got out of the car and was clearly pissed off at me. I wasn't exactly thrilled with her, btw. We walk back inside and they have managed to get the boy on his feet and out of the way but he's still raising holy hell at the top of his lungs screaming and crying. He's got a death grip on the shopping carts.

She immediately went from a biatch to submissive Mom. "Now, Honey. Mommy can't buy you the toy. We'll get it later and.." "WAAAAAA!!!! I WANT THE TOOOOOOOOOYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY YY!!!" The kid start shaking the shopping carts while yelling right in his mother's face. She tries to pull him away and he won't let go screaming and yelling at his Mother.

She turns him loose and tells me she can't make him let go. I asked her "Would you like me to help?" She finally relented and said yes.
I reached over to the shopping cart handles and spread the baskets apart. The kid suddenly went from having a Kung Fu grip on the wire baskets to having his fingers in a vice.

This scream was slightly different from the ones he had been giving. I pushed the baskets back together and he yanked his hands out.

"There ya go!"

As I walk them out to the car the kid is still sobbing, but he following my instructions. The Mom never took a dominate stance with the kid. I'd hate to think what he is going to be like in another 5 to 6 years.

I walk back inside and thank the cashier that got him up. She laughed and said no problem. "But that kid needs some therapy... leather therapy!"
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« Reply #1 on: December 24, 2007, 12:34:24 AM »
LOL~ Leather Therapy.  Good one :)
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Re: Child Therapy
« Reply #2 on: December 24, 2007, 12:37:11 AM »
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"But that kid needs some therapy... leather therapy!"




Tell me about it. If I had ever done that my mom or dad would have gave me some right in the store then some more when we got home.
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« Reply #3 on: December 24, 2007, 12:49:58 AM »
No...the Mother needs some "leather therapy" (not that kind TK....sheesh!)

That is typical of a kid who has never had any limits imposed or enforced on them.

Sad, but a true state of the average parenting devotion of the last 10 years or so.

My kids grew up with the great "video game"  called "outdoors" where they could always come in for Koolaid, or get dragged in for personal 1 on 1 interaction with the Dad unit or Mom unit (sometimes that wasn't pleasant with the child unit, but wtf).

Seems the more we evolve into this technological society, we expect technology to grow our kids up and set thier limits.

Ain't working folks. Sometimes maybe it IS better to employ the rod.

Just my humble $0.02 (I have 3 wonderfully responsible young adults now, who grew up under the "thumb").

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« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2007, 12:59:38 AM »
All kidding aside about the belt ~ by the time they get to that age, the discipline foundation should already be so firmly set that spankings shouldn't even be necessary.

Even with the 'technology age,' it's fully possible to instill discipline in kids ~ I think parents are just too lazy to do it, because it means a great deal of patience & effort on their part.
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« Reply #5 on: December 24, 2007, 02:20:32 AM »
TxMom, I think the whole point is the mother never set any boundries or followed up on them. If she had been an enforcer instead of a therapist (no pun intended) the child would have already learned right behavior from wrong.

We (the staff present) were all pretty much in agreement that if any of us had tried that we would have been publicly beaten in the blink of an eye.

I don't know the backstory, but I'd bet a $100 she was a single mother.
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« Reply #6 on: December 24, 2007, 03:47:09 AM »
Did the kid yell, "Don't taze me bro!"

Did you get it on video?
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« Reply #7 on: December 24, 2007, 04:06:45 AM »
I thought about that later. I had my phonecam and it would have been a great vid. But, I was more concerned with resolving the event. I'm sure the security got it.
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« Reply #8 on: December 24, 2007, 04:09:27 AM »
The NEW discipline tool....
 "If you don't stop this racket I'll video your tantrum and post it on you tube then I'll email the link to ALL your friends!"
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« Reply #9 on: December 24, 2007, 04:49:50 AM »
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Originally posted by Holden McGroin
Did the kid yell, "Don't taze me bro!"

Did you get it on video?


Someone seriously needs to make some low powered tasers and sell em as errr um toys for parents :)  (after all you can get shocking tank games).

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« Reply #10 on: December 24, 2007, 05:05:05 AM »
taser lite = cattle prod

as long as you only zap the little buggers and not hit them with it you may even stay out of the clutches of auntie helen's anti smacking gestapo... but i doubt it

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« Reply #11 on: December 24, 2007, 05:22:15 AM »
Just a thought...... Hopefuly that Mom's lawyer doesn't show up with a law suite , and all kinds of crap doctors reports of trauma,pain and suffering from that little bastage's fingers getting pinched it the shopping carts ....
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« Reply #12 on: December 24, 2007, 06:53:29 AM »
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« Reply #13 on: December 24, 2007, 07:04:48 AM »
If she woulda bought the toy, the kid wouldn'ta had to resort to such extreme tactics. :p :D

Got a 2 yo boy who just beginning to understand.   Even so, I'm sure he will try it once to see if it works :cry, and once is all it takes if you dont lay the hammer down :t.  My girls are 11 and 8 and they fully understand that that type of behavior is out of the question. :aok  
(now if I could just get thier mother to mind as well.................)

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« Reply #14 on: December 24, 2007, 07:14:13 AM »
Sadly, that seems to be the situation more often than not when single women raise boys---they seem incapable of any sort discipline--which is why families are best comprised of a mother and a father
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