During out first session other then some talking he handed us each a sheet of paper witha list of things on them he called "the circle of power"
On that sheet he had us draw a circle of everytng for exa,ple I felt she did to me. Then draw a line through everything that I felt I did to her.
she did the same.
Im guessing its for future refrence of for them to get a baseline on us because we handed him the sheets and he just put them in a folder.
Next when we go back we are supposed to go into seperate rooms for something like 8 weeks of seperate group therapy. Then we go back in together for another 8 weeks or something like that
Its run by several people as opposed to just going to see one person we are supposed to be meeting with several people there.
I guess each has their own speciialty I dont kow.
Time will tell.
He did tell us that our complaints were pretty typical of the couples that go in for counceling. Not sure if thats good or bad LOL
Or if he was just saying that to try to provide some sort of reassurance that all is not necessarily lost.
Dunno. I'll just go into it with an open mind and see how it goes
