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Offline TwentyFo

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« Reply #75 on: January 25, 2008, 01:18:41 PM »
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It's possible that those you consider too sensitive to trash talk are perhaps older individuals that still remember what happened when trash talk was confined to face to face meetings without the distances involved with the net.
 


When I trash talk, I try to not to make it seem as a threat. Have you ever seen the way Vince Vaughn talked to that kid while playing Madden in 'The Breakup'?
That's the way I try to use trash talk. Some of you guys take it personal, which is ridiculous. When I do it, I want the other person to respond. Most of the time, it always ends up with me smiling and a . I try to keep it all in good fun. Watch the clip, I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

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« Reply #76 on: January 25, 2008, 02:47:21 PM »
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Everything I needed to know in life I learned in Kindergarten. Perhaps we should make some people repeat the low level schooling.

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Not me. I didn't learn about quality import beers until the third grade.

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« Reply #77 on: January 25, 2008, 03:46:11 PM »
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Not me. I didn't learn about quality import beers until the third grade.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Respect
« Reply #78 on: January 25, 2008, 07:41:08 PM »
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When I trash talk, I try to not to make it seem as a threat. Have you ever seen the way Vince Vaughn talked to that kid while playing Madden in 'The Breakup'?
That's the way I try to use trash talk. Some of you guys take it personal, which is ridiculous. When I do it, I want the other person to respond. Most of the time, it always ends up with me smiling and a . I try to keep it all in good fun. Watch the clip, I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

Vince Vaughn Video Games


If you have ever seen my trash talk................ it's sooooo ridicules in nature that VERY FEW might even THINK I'm serious.

HOWEVER I didn't watch that movie, AND that movie, I did watched the clip you posted, relies IMHO heavily on the fact that you can SEE their faces, AND HEAR their voices!

On the net in the arenas seeing their faces and/or hearing their voices doesn't happen often.  At least from those in an opposing  country.

Although I do sometimes find myself wondering if some of these people aren't "hearing voices"?

My point was to express that trash talk can get out of hand quickly IF it isn't kept to certain minimum STANDARDS.

IMHO Those STANDARDS are what most or many are trying to express in this thread.

Courtesy, civility, sort of a line that SHOULD NOT be crossed thing.

It SEEMS the LOWER that standard of trash talk the worse the response from those receiving that trash talk!

That is what most are really trying to say in this thread IMHO.

I responded to your post, NOT to mark or criticizes you specifically Sir!

But to express that IMHO the standard some SEEM to be trying to set MAY be too low.

If that standard is kept higher it is possible that fewer will cross that line as often as they do now.

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« Reply #79 on: January 26, 2008, 07:52:30 AM »
Well put wrag.
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« Reply #80 on: January 26, 2008, 08:22:51 AM »
I don't see one bit of difference in civility through the entire time I've been in AH.  If anything, frankly abusive behavior is much less than it was before HTC's crackdown a couple years ago.

Absolutely agree that simple (used to be called "Common") courtesy is rare enough...but it's not a change in AH, it's a change in the culture. So it's not easy to change, and in particular it's not AH's fault.

I've been here right around four years, and caught the tail end of AH-1. I'm a lifelong history and aviation fan, and although finances and life events kept me from being part of the Old Guard in 15-20 years ago, I would have fit in just fine. (Not incidentally, I'm not one of the many who would have been in elementary school back then.) Like Guppy, I personally see way more "Good fight" and "Who put that tree there" on 200 than otherwise.

There have always been immature people, and immature behavior, on 200. I'd argue that once the new guys and the clueless preteen dolts are subtracted, the abusiveness we see now is much less. If you compare, say, SkyRock's talk (sorry bud) with, say, JohnnyRa's in his prime -- there's simply no comparison in the pure nastyness.




In short, agree that we should be civil.
In short, think things are on the whole better than they were. Maybe not good, but definitely better.
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