Originally posted by Kanth
How about being with your husband because you love him and want to.
Instead of out of fear that he'll cheat. wtf is "power" doing in a relationship?
How about ending a bad relationship before starting a new one.
How about a little personal responsability for one's own happiness.
To each their own.
How about its ALOT more complicated then just "ending a bad relationship".
There is "power" in all relationships.I've yet to see a relationship of any kind that didnt have power.
For some one side has the majority of the power. for others each side has power with certain things. a shared power so's to speak. but all relationships have power involved.
And i've known a few women who husbands didnt put out either.
While its more often the women. Some men do it to.
and i've known some women who have cheated for exactly that reason.
When you are in a marriage sex isnt just something you want. Its also an obligation each side has.
Both legally, religiously, and socially.
but I've seen alot of women use sex as a game.
you talk power. fear that her husband will cheat.
Wow about the power alot of women like to weild in not putting out unless they get this or that.
Or using it as a weapon by holding out because he didnt do something trivial she wanted him to.
I've witnessed women sitting in a group and giggling how they hold out for such reasons as if it were all a game.
and walked right up to them and point blank told them.
"You might find this little game amusing among yourselves. but trust me. Your husbands dont find it one bit funny."
but getting back to getting out a relationship. Its a hell of alot more complicated then just getting out.
If it were that simple. The divorce rate would probably triple.
