They will grow out of it.
Wait untill they've flown for a year or two. Maybe they participated in a SnapShot, KOTH, FSO or Scenario hosted by our wonderfull Special Events CM staff (Shameless plug), "see the light" and change their ways.
The player that bombs/ bails is the same player that flys around face shooting and ramming into everything they see not even trying to actually "fight".
They are that nme con that flys over 2-3 potential fights to die in the field ack vulching.
It is a "stage" nothing more. Where they are "at" on the "learning curve". (or even "Food Chain" if ya' think about it) They will either quit or grow out of it.
Maybe they happen to go to a King of the Hill event (like the one THIS saturday night 9pm EST in the Special Events Arena) and discover how much more you can do in this game other than face shoot. Where ho/ram flying means you are in the tower most the KOTH watching those who use ACM fight. Which is a GREAT place to watch the fights from CM Eye mode and learn a few tricks. Heck, KOTH is worth it to go and JUST watch in CM Eye mode.
Possibly they got involved in one of our weekly SnapShot events (like we run every Wed. night 10pm EST and Thur. day 3pm EST) or a Scenario like Der Gross Schlagg (DGS was one of the better Scenario's ever done imho. we are STILL talking about the immersion factor it had).
I flew in the past Wed. SnapShot and it was INCREDIBLY fun. Not to mentions it was NIGHT TIME! <S> Hornet. When our Ki-61's finally ran across the 6 ish B-24 formations with F4U escorts @ 20k it was quite the white knuckle rush. With a one or multi life event like that where every plane is worth points it is important to get 'em home and land. They might finally understand that a "successful" mission means you get it back home and succesfully.
Don't EVEN get me started on how much fun high alt bomber missions with escorts are. Getting to target and blowing the heck out of it and back home again all the while battlin' bad guys and flying in formation is a BLAST! Half the fun is the chatter during the climb out.
I mentioned to a squaddie the other night how well we all were doing in a particular fight vs. overwhelming odds. "Yeah we're killing them in droves" said Proploss, "but we aren't LANDING them!".
And to be honest, I agree with that 100%. Sure we all had 4-10 k/d ratio's vs. the bad guys. We weren't LANDING them, and that matters.
I always take off with the intent of landing that sortie succesfully. If I don't make it home it wasn't, well, succesfull. I failed or lost if you will.
Even from a fully capped field I will take off with my normal "battle" loadout on that particular plane. I plan on getting out of there, getting alt, killing bad guys along the way, and eventually landing a ton of scalps and saving the field. (that's my INTENT. granted i'm just as likely to get vulched)
Anyhoo it's just a "stage" a pilot goes through. They will either grow out of it or grow bored and quit.
(it CAN'T be fun dying 10 times to get one kill. that gets old after a few weeks)